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bye mole - chad 9/21/2002, 4:26 pm

heartbroken - joab 9/21/2002, 6:27 am

There is help and healing - Patty with a Y 9/21/2002, 5:54 pm

Re: heartbroken - Lily 9/21/2002, 12:39 pm

Re: heartbroken - Suzi 9/21/2002, 9:15 am

Message in a bottle! - SUN13 9/21/2002, 9:03 am

Rules Changing Help - To Cinda - Sophia 9/20/2002, 1:41 pm

Re: Rules Changing Help - To Cinda - cinda 9/21/2002, 1:56 pm

Re: Rules Changing Help - To Cinda - Anna2 9/20/2002, 4:14 pm

Understanding - Sophia 9/21/2002, 8:08 am

Anger - Suzi 9/21/2002, 6:24 am

Re: Rules Changing Help - To Cinda - Suzi 9/20/2002, 1:54 pm

Voodoo Doctor! - SUN13 9/20/2002, 1:04 pm

Re: Voodoo Doctor! - robrt 9/20/2002, 6:24 pm

Asleep at the wheel! - SUN13 9/20/2002, 7:21 pm

Another Schwhooooosh! (eom) - Suzi 9/20/2002, 2:01 pm

Re: Another Schwhooooosh! (eom) - Liz 9/20/2002, 3:51 pm

Apology! - SUN13 9/20/2002, 4:42 pm

Re: Voodoo Doctor! - SJB 9/20/2002, 1:38 pm

Faith! - SUN13 9/20/2002, 2:45 pm

Song for Friday - Alex 9/20/2002, 8:19 am

Thanks to the board - Jen 9/19/2002, 9:45 pm

Re: Thanks to the board - Lily 9/20/2002, 12:19 pm

Re: Thanks to the board - shaz 9/20/2002, 2:19 am

Just how I feel today. - Patti 9/19/2002, 9:44 pm

Re: Just how I feel today. - Lily 9/20/2002, 12:15 pm

Re: Just how I feel today. - Patti 9/20/2002, 12:24 pm

Re: Just how I feel today. - Lily 9/20/2002, 4:39 pm

Re: Just how I feel today. - Suzi 9/20/2002, 2:12 pm

Re: Just how I feel today. - Patti 9/21/2002, 5:20 pm

Re: Just how I feel today. - Patty with a Y 9/21/2002, 6:08 pm

Anyone here speak Spanish? - lizabeth 9/19/2002, 8:45 pm

Patti, George, and amer, - lizabeth 9/20/2002, 2:07 pm

freetranslations.com - amer 9/20/2002, 11:37 am

Senora Lizabeth, yo hablo espanol - George 9/19/2002, 9:30 pm

Re: Senora Lizabeth, yo hablo espanol - lizabeth 9/19/2002, 9:53 pm

Here's my guess... - George 9/19/2002, 11:51 pm

Re: Anyone here speak Spanish? - Patti 9/19/2002, 8:51 pm

Re: Anyone here speak Spanish? - lizabeth 9/19/2002, 8:55 pm

heartbroken - joab 9/19/2002, 11:37 am

Re: heartbroken - Kathleen 9/19/2002, 7:47 pm

Re: heartbroken - dan 9/19/2002, 7:17 pm

Re: heartbroken - Lily 9/19/2002, 1:08 pm

Adultery! - SUN13 9/19/2002, 12:51 pm

There is hope...(thanks Sue C for alerting me) - PMike 9/19/2002, 12:29 pm

PS...so many thoughts & so little time! - PMike 9/19/2002, 12:36 pm

Broken Heart - Patti 9/19/2002, 12:24 pm

Pastor Mike? Where are you? - Suzi 9/19/2002, 11:59 am

Re: heartbroken - Dixie 9/19/2002, 11:45 am

How did I get *here*? - Anna 9/19/2002, 8:42 am

Re: How did I get *here*? - Lily 9/19/2002, 12:57 pm

Very good point... - Suzi 9/19/2002, 1:02 pm

Spying and Such - Anna2 9/19/2002, 1:49 pm

Re: Spying and Such - Dianne 9/20/2002, 11:21 am

Re: Spying and Such - Caddie 9/19/2002, 2:21 pm

Re: Spying and Such - Suzi 9/19/2002, 2:20 pm

Re: Spying and Such - thinker 9/19/2002, 8:31 pm

Stereotypes! - SUN13 9/19/2002, 9:45 am

Re: Stereotypes! - Anna2 9/19/2002, 10:34 am

Foundation for marriage! - SUN13 9/19/2002, 11:35 am

Re: Foundation for marriage! - Anna2 9/19/2002, 1:44 pm

Dare? - SUN13 9/19/2002, 2:49 pm

Re: Dare? - Anna2 9/20/2002, 6:31 am

Perjury! - SUN13 9/20/2002, 10:33 am

Anna2 - Alex 9/19/2002, 3:44 pm

Pain is pain... - Suzi 9/19/2002, 10:43 am

Re: Pain is pain... - Anna2 9/19/2002, 11:25 am

Absolute truth! - SUN13 9/19/2002, 11:56 am

I see your point - Caddie 9/19/2002, 10:41 am

Rock bottom... - Suzi 9/19/2002, 9:17 am

PS and BTW... - Suzi 9/19/2002, 9:20 am

Re: PS and BTW... - Anna2 9/19/2002, 10:25 am

Anna 2 - Liz 9/19/2002, 11:15 am

Re: Anna 2 - Anna2 9/19/2002, 11:42 am

Re: Anna 2 - Liz 9/20/2002, 5:40 am

Thank You - Anna2 9/20/2002, 6:37 am

Hair! - SUN13 9/20/2002, 11:32 am

SUN13: Hair! ????? - Anna2 9/20/2002, 4:06 pm

For Autumn, moving your reply up - Dixie 9/19/2002, 8:02 am

Good start - Autumn 9/20/2002, 2:23 am

Re: Good start - Dixie 9/20/2002, 8:35 am

Re: Questions - Joy 9/19/2002, 8:38 pm

Enough.... - Suzi 9/20/2002, 8:58 am

Accept unknowns - Autumn 9/20/2002, 2:52 am

Re: Questions - Dixie 9/20/2002, 2:14 am

Re: Creepy, isn't it? - Joy 9/20/2002, 9:00 pm

Re: For Autumn, moving your reply up - Anna 9/19/2002, 8:47 am

Re: For Autumn, moving your reply up - Dixie 9/19/2002, 9:50 am

Unanswered Questions - Kathleen 9/19/2002, 8:04 pm

Re: Excellent questions - SJB 9/19/2002, 10:38 am

H is living with the OW - Hopeless 9/19/2002, 7:14 am

thanks for all replys - Hopeless 9/19/2002, 11:39 pm

They didn't win, he lost....... - Anna 9/19/2002, 10:40 pm

Re: Losers - Joy 9/19/2002, 9:02 pm

Re: H is living with the OW - Lily 9/19/2002, 12:40 pm

Re: H is living with the OW - Cindy 9/19/2002, 12:09 pm

i'm taking something - DD 9/19/2002, 1:01 pm

Hope for YOUR future, not his! - Jacquie 9/19/2002, 8:35 am

She hasn't won anything - SUMMER 9/19/2002, 8:27 am

Re: H is living with the OW - TraceyLynne 9/19/2002, 8:18 am

Re: H is living with the OW - Suzi 9/19/2002, 8:11 am

Yes - lulu 9/19/2002, 8:08 am

rules changing....help - cinda 9/19/2002, 5:59 am

Re: rules changing....help - Smooth 9/19/2002, 1:12 pm

Re: rules changing....help - Lily 9/19/2002, 12:28 pm

Re: rules changing....help - smooth 9/19/2002, 1:28 pm

Hope this helps!!!! - D 9/19/2002, 10:08 am

Re: rules changing....help - Anna 9/19/2002, 9:12 am

Re: rules changing....help - cinda 9/19/2002, 9:24 am

Re: rules changing....help - Suzi 9/19/2002, 9:36 am

Thanks for thoughts - cinda 9/19/2002, 7:08 pm

How do you know when . . . - SJB 9/19/2002, 12:10 am

Re: How do you know when . . . - Lily 9/19/2002, 12:22 pm

Re: How do you know when . . . - Suzi 9/19/2002, 8:04 am

Re: How do you know when . . . - GPG 9/19/2002, 7:56 am

Not gender bias - Patti 9/19/2002, 7:07 am

Wanted to share this - lizabeth 9/18/2002, 9:05 pm

Re: Wanted to share this - Kathleen 9/18/2002, 9:09 pm

Need to post - lulu 9/18/2002, 3:59 pm

Wasted years? - Lily 9/19/2002, 12:16 pm

hi! - Patti 9/18/2002, 10:02 pm

You said it! - Suzi 9/18/2002, 10:32 pm

It's amazing! - lulu 9/18/2002, 9:41 pm

Re: Need to post - Kathleen 9/18/2002, 9:06 pm

Call me!!!! - Sunny 9/18/2002, 8:55 pm

Aha!! There she is! - Suzi 9/18/2002, 10:41 pm

We sure need you to post! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 6:01 pm

GOOF!! I meant lulu and typed Kathleen! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 6:04 pm

Re: GOOF!! I meant lulu and typed Kathleen! - Kathleen 9/18/2002, 9:12 pm

Re: Need to post - Suzi 9/18/2002, 4:27 pm

Re: Need to post - Lee S 9/18/2002, 4:24 pm

Re: Need to post - LisaT 9/18/2002, 4:09 pm

I do not know who to believe - Kathleen 9/18/2002, 3:51 pm

Time For - Sunny 9/18/2002, 8:58 pm

Re: Time For - Kathleen 9/18/2002, 9:02 pm

I hate this... - Suzi 9/18/2002, 4:33 pm

Lie detectors - Kathleen 9/18/2002, 8:56 pm

Re: I do not know who to believe - Lily 9/18/2002, 4:04 pm

Re: I do not know who to believe - Kathleen 9/18/2002, 4:14 pm

Re: I do not know who to believe - GPG 9/18/2002, 6:06 pm

Re: I do not know who to believe - Kathleen 9/18/2002, 9:00 pm

Anyone got some time to kill? - Liz 9/18/2002, 11:36 am

Re: Anyone got some time to kill? - Suzi 9/19/2002, 7:05 am

Re: Anyone got some time to kill? - Dixie 9/19/2002, 4:28 am

Hmmmm, well now.... - Liz 9/19/2002, 11:24 am

Re: Hmmmm, well now.... - Dixie 9/19/2002, 11:41 am

More liekly I'm not explaining very well! - Liz 9/20/2002, 5:07 am

Not either of us I think - Dixie 9/20/2002, 7:43 am

New stuff! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 12:28 pm

my world fell apart - shaz 9/18/2002, 6:32 am

Re: my world fell apart - Lily 9/18/2002, 1:47 pm

Re: my world fell apart - shaz 9/18/2002, 9:44 am

What do you expect - LisaT 9/18/2002, 10:22 am

Re: What do you expect - shaz 9/19/2002, 1:05 am

Re: my world fell apart - GPG 9/18/2002, 10:14 am

Civil! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 10:34 am

Re: Civil! - GPG 9/18/2002, 12:36 pm

Liability? - SUN13 9/18/2002, 12:58 pm

Unfortunately - GPG 9/18/2002, 1:43 pm

Even in Canada! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 2:25 pm

Re: Unfortunately - Jeff 9/18/2002, 1:53 pm

Re: Unfortunately - GPG 9/18/2002, 2:22 pm

Re: Unfortunately - SJB 9/18/2002, 2:42 pm

Re: Unfortunately - Dixie 9/19/2002, 11:31 am

Re: Unfortunately - SJB 9/19/2002, 12:12 pm

Better world! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 10:07 am

Re: Better world! - shaz 9/19/2002, 2:03 am

Re: Better world! - Dixie 9/19/2002, 11:34 am

Re: Better world! - shaz 9/20/2002, 2:02 am

Your world still intact! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 8:01 am

Re: my world fell apart - Suzi 9/18/2002, 7:48 am

Re: my world fell apart - Liz 9/18/2002, 7:28 am

Yikes - I did it to myself - Valerie 9/17/2002, 11:11 pm

Re: Yikes - I did it to myself - Lily 9/18/2002, 1:35 pm

Horse's Ass - Autumn 9/18/2002, 1:07 pm

Re: Horse's Ass - Dixie 9/19/2002, 11:22 am

Re: Yikes - I did it to myself - D 9/18/2002, 7:45 am

Re: Yikes - I did it to myself - Suzi 9/18/2002, 7:43 am

Re: Yikes - I did it to myself - Valerie 9/18/2002, 10:54 am

Re: Yikes - I did it to myself - Suzi 9/18/2002, 11:09 am

Help so confused - Robin 9/17/2002, 9:58 pm

Dishonesty! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 8:29 am

Re: Help so confused - Liz 9/18/2002, 2:04 am

Re: Help so confused - Bobbie 9/18/2002, 8:28 am

Re: Help so confused - Liz 9/18/2002, 1:31 pm

Re: Help so confused - Bobbie 9/19/2002, 9:29 am

Got your mail. - Liz 9/19/2002, 11:28 am

Re: Got your mail. - Bobbie 9/20/2002, 12:12 pm

Re: Help so confused - Robin 9/18/2002, 11:51 am

For SUN13 - LisaT 9/17/2002, 6:49 pm

Thanks for the thought! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 8:53 am

Re: Thanks for the thought! - LisaT 9/18/2002, 9:12 am

Advertising! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 9:43 am

Any of you still have OW working w/ H? - Cindy 9/17/2002, 6:27 pm

Re: Any of you still have OW working w/ H? - T11 9/19/2002, 6:50 am

Re: Any of you still have OW working w/ H? - Lee S 9/18/2002, 3:03 pm

Re: Any of you still have OW working w/ H? - Autumn 9/18/2002, 11:54 am

Clarifying this - Autumn 9/18/2002, 12:24 pm

Re: Clarifying this - GPG 9/18/2002, 3:22 pm

Re: Any of you still have OW working w/ H? - Cindy 9/18/2002, 11:36 am

I realized I didn't answer your questions.... - TraceyLynne 9/19/2002, 6:55 am

Cindy..... - TraceyLynne 9/18/2002, 8:54 pm

Re: Any of you still have OW working w/ H? - getting there 9/18/2002, 11:11 am

no way! - jo 9/18/2002, 5:38 am

Re: Any of you still have OW working w/ H? - Red 9/17/2002, 11:10 pm

Re: Any of you still have OW working w/ H? - GPG 9/18/2002, 9:46 am

Re: Any of you still have OW working w/ H? - TraceyLynne 9/17/2002, 9:11 pm

Good to hear! - JB 9/18/2002, 11:38 am

Re: Good to hear! - TraceyLynne 9/18/2002, 8:50 pm

Great! - JB 9/18/2002, 9:52 pm

Have you all heard this song? - Molly 9/17/2002, 4:34 pm

beautiful - GPG 9/18/2002, 9:49 am

Farewell - Mole 9/17/2002, 2:56 pm

Re: Farewell - Sophia 9/18/2002, 8:11 pm

Apologies are in order! - SUN13 9/17/2002, 4:33 pm

Re: Apologies are in order! - Mole 9/17/2002, 4:54 pm

Re: Farewell - Liz 9/17/2002, 4:17 pm

Re: Farewell - Mole 9/17/2002, 4:51 pm

Congratulations! - LM 9/17/2002, 4:14 pm

Re: Congratulations! - Mole 9/17/2002, 4:48 pm

Ahhhh, I knew it! - Kathleen 9/18/2002, 3:25 pm

Re: Farewell - Sunsheine 9/17/2002, 3:52 pm

Re: Farewell - Mole 9/17/2002, 4:13 pm

Lol...... - Sunsheine 9/17/2002, 9:52 pm

Best of luck and sleep - George 9/17/2002, 5:04 pm

Well, Happy Baby, Mole - MU 9/17/2002, 3:20 pm

Re: Well, Happy Baby, Mole - Mole 9/17/2002, 4:09 pm

Congratulations... - Suzi 9/17/2002, 3:03 pm

Re: Congratulations... - Mole 9/17/2002, 4:04 pm

Jack Welsh? - SUN13 9/17/2002, 11:55 am

dunno Jack Shit... - George 9/17/2002, 2:24 pm

I don't know Jack Shit either... - MU 9/17/2002, 3:23 pm

Re: Jack Welsh? - SUMMER 9/17/2002, 2:23 pm

Jack Welch! - SUN13 9/17/2002, 3:44 pm

Wow, does he like tall w long hair? - George 9/17/2002, 4:59 pm

He likes big boobs and flat stomachs! - SUN13 9/17/2002, 5:07 pm

Deserving - George 9/17/2002, 5:09 pm

Oh, is Welch, not Welsh! - George 9/17/2002, 2:28 pm

I thought you said it was Shit George?! - Alex 9/17/2002, 3:17 pm

Yeah... - George 9/17/2002, 3:40 pm

Hey George - Alex 9/17/2002, 3:59 pm

:-) that was funny - MU 9/17/2002, 6:24 pm

LOL - George 9/17/2002, 4:57 pm

Now THAT made me laugh! (eom) - Liz 9/17/2002, 4:20 pm

letter - Rose 9/17/2002, 10:57 am

Re: letter - shaz 9/18/2002, 6:08 am

Confrontation! - SUN13 9/18/2002, 9:18 am

Re: letter - Lily 9/17/2002, 4:37 pm

Confrontation! - SUN13 9/17/2002, 11:39 am

LOL - Jeff 9/17/2002, 12:20 pm

Write it.... - Suzi 9/17/2002, 11:07 am

Peace - Jacquie (JQ) 9/17/2002, 7:40 am

God's plan! - SUN13 9/17/2002, 4:00 pm

Re: Peace - Liz 9/17/2002, 2:41 pm

Re: Peace - MU 9/17/2002, 1:47 pm

BEAUTIFUL! - LM 9/17/2002, 12:56 pm

Bad Days - Dixie 9/17/2002, 3:31 am

Re: Bad Days - Patti 9/17/2002, 12:40 pm

You will get past this - Sophia 9/17/2002, 11:53 am

Rage! - SUN13 9/17/2002, 11:23 am

Re: Rage! - Alex 9/17/2002, 11:28 am

Yes.... - Suzi 9/17/2002, 1:43 pm

Re: Bad Days - cinda 9/17/2002, 4:39 am

Re: Bad Days - Dixie 9/17/2002, 5:03 am

Re: Bad Days - Liz 9/17/2002, 7:45 am

An apology! - SUN13 9/17/2002, 8:44 am

Re: Bad Days - Dixie 9/17/2002, 8:24 am

Re: Bad Days - Autumn 9/18/2002, 12:57 pm

Yep Dixie... - Liz 9/17/2002, 11:30 am

(no subject) - Dixie 9/17/2002, 12:12 pm

Re: Bad Days - Suzi 9/17/2002, 7:25 am

Re: Bad Days - Dixie 9/17/2002, 7:33 am

Re: Bad Days - SJB 9/17/2002, 7:23 am

Re: Bad Days - Dixie 9/17/2002, 7:35 am

Re: Bad Days - SJB 9/17/2002, 8:52 am

Not sure - suspicious 9/16/2002, 6:47 pm

Re: Not sure - Lily 9/17/2002, 3:58 pm

Evidence? - SUN13 9/17/2002, 1:10 pm

Re: Not sure - Liz 9/17/2002, 12:28 pm

been there this weekend - dave 9/17/2002, 11:29 am

Re: Not sure - Suzi 9/16/2002, 8:29 pm

Re: Not sure - Joy 9/16/2002, 7:51 pm

Re: Not sure - suspicious 9/17/2002, 3:44 pm

Re: One less thing,,, - Joy 9/17/2002, 6:25 pm

Re: One less thing,,, - suspicious 9/17/2002, 8:02 pm

Re: Obsess - Joy 9/17/2002, 11:45 pm

Re: One less thing,,, - Joy 9/17/2002, 6:22 pm

Which is worse - lizabeth 9/16/2002, 5:40 pm

Re: Which is worse - MU 9/17/2002, 1:41 pm

Re: Which is worse - SJB 9/17/2002, 7:04 am

Re: Which is worse - Pete 9/16/2002, 10:02 pm

Re: Which is worse - Suzi 9/16/2002, 7:53 pm

Re: Which is worse - LM 9/16/2002, 6:38 pm

Question - Jacob 9/16/2002, 6:30 pm

Re: Which is worse - George 9/16/2002, 6:21 pm

Re: Which is worse - Lily 9/16/2002, 6:05 pm

I really wished - lizabeth 9/16/2002, 6:48 pm

6 of 1, half dozen of the other... - LisaT 9/16/2002, 5:48 pm

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