Crap Game Explained

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When I ask what did people notice in their body, I get the following responses:

  • tense muscles
  • stiff neck
  • faster breathing
  • louder voice
  • red faced
  • clenched fists

Then I ask what word describes the opposite of what their body feels when attempting to prove or persuade their partner that he or she was wrong.

After only a few guesses, I hear the word "relaxation."

Herein lies the secret of the Crap Game of Life.

As you saw in the previous graphic, there are two tables. We do get to choose the table at which to play.

At Crap Table # 1, we play "to be right." That is what we win. However, what we lose is "Relaxation." Or in the language of craps, we win "being right." The "take", what we have to forfeit in order to play, is "Relaxation."

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